Never say don't blog

Window of opportunity

This morning I pinged Apeksha saying that babe my brain is pounding with thoughts. She said BLOG.

From 2009 to 2012 the way people express themselves has changed drastically. Its not in many words now. Maybe just an image, a word, a question mark. A question mark can alone evoke 'likes' and responses like 'What happened babe?'.

Anyway, the ones who blog will blog. Apeksha has promised to contribute because she is better with expressions. ( I am better with the men though!).

Well, to begin lots has changed in 3 years. The highlight would be a new continent, strange weather, beauty at its best.

But in this post I want to talk about rejection. A negative thought to start with but the light is always at the end of the tunnel.

The word 'rejection' was first used in 1415. People experienced it then as well but probably didn't have a word for it.

Since then the word and its meaning and its impact has been felt by people in various walks of life.

According to the 'authority' Wikipedia although humans are social beings, some level of rejection is an inevitable part of life. Nevertheless, rejection can become a problem when it is prolonged or consistent, when the relationship is important, or when the individual is highly sensitive to rejection. Rejection by an entire group of people can have especially negative effects, particularly when it results in social isolation.

I think its a cycle. 

1) Presentation

2) Judgement

3) Verdict :-Rejected

4) Feeling dejected, lack of confidence

5) Time is the healer

6) Questions, introspection

7) Solution

8) Correction

9) Presentation in a new light

10) Verdict : Rejected.

Why does rejection evoke so many emotions to a otherwise confident individual. And why do people get so heartless , callous and selfish.

Why is it that a girl cannot see the love in the boy's eyes

Why is that the 'it' group in college look down upon a '100% attendance in class' student

Why does a non-vegetarian think vegetarians don't live their life to the fullest

Why does a hiring manager not follow up with an interviewed candidate.

Time constraint, priorities, social image, value system, better fishes in the pond..the reasons are many.

Anyway, I think the best solution is getting drunk , sending a nasty email/text, ( preferably no blood shed)

For more corrective solutions visit a shrink.

My poison to cope with rejection : 3 shots of Tequila.

And hey the saying that opportunity knocks at your door just once is false. It the opportunity is meant to be yours it wont stand knocking the door. It will ring the bell till you open and welcome it.

I would like to sign off as 

XOXO

Gossip girl

But I prefer 

XOXO

Call me....